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As if life isn’t crazy enough these days, I’ve recently decided to start looking for my birth parents with my Mom’s blessing. My Mom and Dad have always been great and I’ve never felt very compelled to look for my birth parents in the past. I was adopted by my parents in 1978 at 10 days old. I don’t know what it’s like to not be adopted (I get that question all the time – “what’s it like to be adopted?”). My parents couldn’t have kids of their own and I was available so it worked out for all parties involved. I was, of course, the perfect child.

In recent years, I’ve had some questions about my birth parents. I don’t feel like there’s anything missing from my life but they’d be 49 this year and I’m curious to see what they’re like. In a way, I wish I could meet them without them knowing who I am because I feel there’s a lot that could go wrong but…. after my Mom encouraging me to look them up, I think I’m ready.
As with the rest of my life, I like to share everything with the people I know so in the spirit of full disclosure – here’s everything I have in terms of paperwork on myself:
If you click on the link, you can download the paperwork I came with after my adoption was finalized. It’s got some interesting stuff in there. Apparently my birth parents were hobbits. I’m 6′2″ so I’m not sure how that happened. I’m also getting the paperwork rolling with the government to access my original birth record. If my birth mother hasn’t locked down her records, her name will be on that form! Crazy!
I’ll post more on this when I find out some information. Just thought some of you might be curious to learn about this aspect of my life.
I’m adopted too and I met my biological siblings in Mauritius in 2006. It was great to finally see what they are like and I maintain contact with the biological side of my family.
I personally think every family should tell their kids they were adopted when they are very young instead of waiting until they are 18 or older. I am always grateful to my parents for adopting me and telling me since I was a kid. I would have had a very hard life if I stayed in Delicious Mauritius.
Good luck, I think it’s great you’re looking them up.
So I’m a hobbit??
Good luck with the search!
Thanks Mees. Thanks Gio.
Nothing against hobbits. LoL
My eldest brother was adopted by my father. We used to laugh together when friends of the family would reference the resemblance between us. He’s been a great brother and an even better friend.
You clearly take after your birth paternal grandfather being “self employed”.
Don’t worry about the height thing. My father is 5′7″ and my mom is shorter and I’m 5′10″!
While I’m sure this is exciting, you must also have a great deal of trepidation in deciding to unlock this piece of your past. Good luck with your search!
Thanks for all the well wishings guys. I actually got some paperwork from the government on Thursday last week.
I now know my birth mother’s name. I also know what my name was legally until I was 1…
Mark Landry. Weird, eh? My Dad says it’s a race car driver’s name.
LOL.
My friend John is a private investigator and found out more for me (thanks John!).
I now also know my maternal grandmother’s name and think I may have found my birthmother’s sister.
I’ll keep you posted…